Quote: I'm sorry to say that in the back of my mind I have this sense of impending doom. That after all of this, his feelings have not changed and he just can't love me, but if that's the case, what is he doing staying?
I have had that same feeling for quite awhile now, and just can't figure out why H stays but yet is unwilling to talk or work on R. I just figure we have guys that do a lot of thinking and are not going to give us any verbal hope until they are 100% sure about committing back into the M.
My H also does the common courtesy thing and continues to do the little things that one would expect from a spouse, but yet there are no words of hope or physical touch.
I like your idea of watching and observing with IL's and am very curious how your H will act towards you with his parents there.
