Don't rush it. I think that's what happened with us. He re-connected too fast and then de-compressed, panicked and ran for the hills.It's taken a couple of months to get to where we were 6 months ago. I think the second time was harder and he's still not where he was. So, whatever you do don't be in a hurry.
Be happy with the little things and just plan on everything taking twice as long as what you thought it might. I think if they rush then what happens is like the "rubber band" effect and they shoot backwards.
Believe me I know how tiresome it is to act like you are just friends when you've had so much more than before. But, look at some of these other guys that won't talk or see there W for months on end. What you have is much better than that.
