Just went thru your last thread - having a hard time keeping everyone straight.
What is with these guys? I keep telling myself that my H must process things completely differently from how I think. I wouldn't be as nice as he is if I wanted someone to realize that I don't want them. It's gone beyond what guilt would produce also. So what's with the separate bedrooms still? What boneheads they are.
Your H sounds as if he's trying to improve things. My H also started picking up the rope around the house. He even caulked the front door yesterday. I think our H's are both trying to "step up to the plate" but what it means in their minds is anyone's guess. It may be that my H saw how much cleaning I had done in preparation for his parents visit and felt he should do something. It's very weird, a few months after the bomb, all of a sudden he started doing things like having the deck power-washed and sealed, getting termite treatment, and other kinds of house stuff. But that may just be because I at one time listed "maintaining the house" as something we would both be responsible for while we were separated (as I anticipated at the time).
I guess I'll go home tonight and get that other bedroom ready for whomever is going to use it, and then I'm dropping the rope. Tomorrow I have to go to a client's picnic so will be home late - whatever's not done by then is on him, as the ILs will arrive Wed am.
Interesting. H just called to tell me he's going to move his stuff so parents can stay in that bedroom. But I think it only means he's moving into the other one, not mine.
