Thanks so much for the support. It definitely makes keeping it up easier.
OK, here's my next challenge. I have the opportunity to use my boss's beach house in Rehoboth, DE and I am dying to get away. H has planned last bike trip and another one in Utah in a couple of weeks, with no talk of us doing anything together this summer (no surprise there).
I can't decide whether to say I'm going to the beach for the weekend, just want to be by myself or whether to ask H if he wants to come along. I know I should do what I want, but it's a choice between the "get a life and do my own thing" or maybe a good chance to db on a highter plane. But, I think if we go together and maintain the separate bedrooms, etc. that would be just depressing. Also, now I'm the one afraid it would be too much of an opportunity for an R talk, which for some reason I really don't want right now (afraid of what I'll hear).
So, I know I need to make the decision myself, but any input from wise db'ers would be greatly appreciated.
