I think what you're doing is great. One of the hardest things to do is to keep up all those little things, and you are making a definate effort to think of them.
Well, my thread is pretty long...LOL...so don't feel too bad if you don't read the whole thing. You're welcome to just jump in at the end, or just read it, I keep updating it more for myself than anything else. It's a great tool I've learned to help myself focus and think clearly about my marriage.
One of the hardest things to do is to keep up all those little things, and you are making a definate effort to think of them. 
You're welcome to just jump in at the end, or just read it, I keep updating it more for myself than anything else. It's a great tool I've learned to help myself focus and think clearly about my marriage. 