Hi BF,

Never occurred to me that H was a WOA and Gifts kind of guy until I read the book and really starting examining things. I've really tried to focus on those things in the last month or so. The gifts don't even have to be anything elaborate. I couldn't believe how happy he was when I made up a notebook for him to put his bike trip sheets in. Even got a kiss for that one, only one in almost two months until Sat morn. I really look for chances to say WOA also. Something I never paid attention to before.

Sometimes what works best for me though is not saying anything. Especially when he's in a talking mood. Sometimes if you just let the silence lay there, they feel compelled to say something. When I did that after the infamous sofabed incident, that was when H started blurting out things.

I'm sorry that I haven't contributed much to other people's threads. I must admit that even though I've been lurking for a long time, I just can't keep everyone straight. I'll try to do better.