My H seems to be in a very mild MLC. And yes, we do everything together. I thought it was weird at first, now I realize that each second we are together provides one more second of DBing time.
It's wonderful, so do it and take full advantage.
Take my sitch...My H recently agreed to watch the marriage breakthrough tapes with me and to read a book on love. He said he was doing it becasue he knows it is important to me. OK, I really wish it was because he wants this M to work, not because he is being nice to me. But, what's more important? Being right, or getting what I want? He's watching and reading, right? So, who cares what his motivation is? The outcome is that he will be better educated and hopefully will be more likely to do the work necessary to get us back in the saddle.
