If it feels good to write...then do it! All of the posts on my thread look like yours. Gotta get out all those feelings somehow, and it's better than directing it at your H.
You are whichever place you want to be in. I can tell you that you will probably get more attention over in newcomers. But it's really up to you where you want to post.
To be honest, you sound like you've made some pretty good progress on your own! Baby steps are the key. Your H is obviously having a hard time with what he wants to do....all the drafts, the pros/cons list. Try not to be so upset by it. And try not to snoop anymore. But, look at it this way--there is still some indecision!
Quote: He lists being not free, emotionally dead. He lists comfortable, familiar, the dogs, garage for his bikes/motorcyle as the pros for the house.
Sounds like this guy could use a little something to shake up his world. I don't mean this in a bad way! Try to create some mystery. Let me know if you need some specific examples, and I'll try to dig up some of the threads on it. Also, the "get a life" might work well for you, too.
You sound like you have a pretty good handle on yourself. Keep up the PMA, you're fighting the good fight.
Gotta get out all those feelings somehow, and it's better than directing it at your H.
But, look at it this way--there is still some indecision!
