Thanks for the reply Kind18. It’s always nice to hear other people that were able to move on and build a happy life after going through a divorce. You are right about your last sentence. In a way, she did me a favour because I found my current wife. But I usually don’t like to think that way. I was also happy in my first marriage before she lost her mind.

My wife said the same thing about my ex when she sent me her aplogy. She said that she was testing the waters. Who knows and who cares?


Me:49 XW:41, M:18 years, Kids: S18,S14
BD:JULY 2017, W moved out: DEC 2017
Filed for D: APR 2019, D Final: JULY 2019