As difficult as some of this is to read, you're absolutely right, Valeska. I need to stop enabling and distance myself. I took a photo of a page straight out of the DR book that talks about why distance and not reaching out is so important. I've been trying to read that little part every day, so I will continue so that I may remind myself that it's what H needs.
So it seems to me my best course of action now is to just go dark. Until when? Until he decides he's ready to talk about the R?
