You’re right Kind. I see it now and you and DnJ have helped me. I have not achieved indifference but am working on it. Incidentally, OM is here visiting I have learned. This time I have not shown any reaction and I am determined to do nothing but ignore and move on if I see him. Instead I reached out to my friends and told them how I was feeling and then went we out for a beer one day and fishing the next.
