I noticed she had unblocked me. ... was intrigued as that day was...our 10th wedding anniversary. ... I did notice that she seems to have blocked me .... I don't know if .... I also don't know why she ... I have also heard from ... initially made me think she'd ...
Hey Kevf1,
Do you see where you are focusing? Not on you. But on attempting mind reading of her behaviors.
I do understand the impulse. I've been there.
I suggest you DO NOT mind read and instead focus on yourself. In MWD words...that is a cheeseless tunnel. You are looking for reason in a process that is not based on reason. Don't base your actions on what you imagine her "reasoning" to be. Re-read the previous posts from jaejae, DNJ, and Kind18 again.
Originally Posted by Kevf1
I have also heard from my mechanics who work at the garage we used in our business, who she deleted from her Facebook when she ended marriage that she has now added them back on Facebook as friends, but these are the only ones I know she's added back. 1 of them said to me just keep doing what I'm doing and she will come back. That initially made me think she'd said something to him but now I think it's just a friend trying to keep me positive.
I think MWD addresses advice from friends, both LBS and WAS. Friends care about you and will want you to stop hurting. And they will give advice or suggestions they believe will help you feel better the quickest. This often leads to very bad advice in terms of your end goals or values you have. Love them for caring. Take with a large dose of skepticism in terms of you achieving your goals.
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H:55 XW:50 D20, D18, S14 ILYBINILWY 3/23 DB1 4/23, rescinded 5/23, DB2 6/23 ("I can't do this, I Love HIM") Legal Mediation 1-5 & W leaves 8/23 – 3/24 Settlement 5/24, Court 9/11/24, D 9/16/24
