We haven't discussed the bills, mortgage, or household expenses too much. We are in an interesting predicament right now as he's the sole breadwinner. I have been working only little part-time jobs as I'm finishing up graduate school this year. Typically though, I was the one who kept track of all the household expenses and paid the bills and utilities as they came up. I did transfer his car note information back to him make sure it gets paid every month. All other household expenses I plan to keep up on though, as I'm the one living in the house. We have a shared bank account, and despite the fact that we are separated right now he did say he wasn't going to just cut me off. As awful as all of this has been, I do believe him in that sense. & if for some reason he did, I know my support system is not going to let me fail as they want to see me finish graduate school.
I've been doing my best to go dark the past couple of days. I have not reached out to him, although he hasn't reached out either. As far as going dark do people usually remove their spouses off social media so that they can't see updates? That seems so callous to me, but I can also see how it might be beneficial. I've just refrained from posting anything on social media the last 2 days. I want him to feel like he has no way to know what I've been up to. Almost like I've vanished completely.
