well its 27th September. 12th July she ended marriage. 28th August she told me she had filed for divorce and I have been blocked since then so no communication. I still have not received paperwork or email from HMCTS. I'm in UK and my understanding is I should of been served by now if she filed a month ago. I phoned HMCTS last Monday 22nd September and they have no record of a petition against me. Why would she torture me like this, it's been hell waiting a month to be served, wondering every day if this will be the day. Obviously I don't want a divorce, so I should try to see the positive, but I just don't understand why she'd say it if she hasn't.
Another thing. For the last month she was using a photo I took of her on our wedding anniversary 9 years ago as her social media profile picture. Yesterday she had changed it to a new photo taken recently as it shows the tattoo she had to cover over my name tattoo. She looks absolutely stunning in this photo. Its B&W and she looks so young. I'd imagine its heavily filtered as no wrinkles on her forehead or her 'crow feet' around her eyes she would often complain about. Is this part of her trying to look young and desperately cling to her youth. She's stunning naturally, used to do a bit of modelling, so she doesn't need all these filters etc. Or is she seeking validation from friends or even trying to attract someone new.
I have just re-read shock sis thread and how she explained her MLC and whilst reading it, it did put my mind at ease a bit, but now my brain on over drive again!
