Second week of school and no R talk from H. I don’t want to ask because he’ll just say something like, I decided to stay until blah blah. Didn’t I tell you? I told you right? Will he ever grow up and take responsibility for this? It’s mind boggling!
Last week I did some shopping over lunch. I was on my way home getting off the freeway. I look across and there’s H in his car. He was coming out of one of the commuter lots. I’m like what the hell. He didn’t see me. His light turns before mine and I see him turn left then right, heading east. I was heading the other direction but I’ll admit I tried to catch up with him. He was long gone by then or had pulled into the possible OW apartment because she lives right there. In the moment I wasnt thinking and I texted him and asked him about it because he just told me that morning he was heading south for work. He said it was him. He asked why. I told him I thought it was weird because you told me you were going to see a customer. He said that he had to see another customer first and he stopped to make a call. I let it go at that because I knew he was lying. I could have said well neither of those customers are in this direction and you’re heading the wrong way. Nevermind that you never stop to take calls you always do them on the road. The timing didn’t work out either, he got home way too soon for all that driving. At least he didn’t lie about being there just why? Probably not much of a win. Why won’t he tell me what the he!! Is going on? I guess I know that but frustrating!!!!!
Working on finding a coach. Almost there. That will bring up money talks and probably R talks. Not sure how to handle it.
