Ok- after two weeks of going( mostly) dark, save for a few tantrums of my own towards him for his decision - he returned home this morning, carrying two bags of rumples clothes. Previously, he would tote neatly folded bags of clothes.
I don't know how I feel about this, because I was ready to pull the trigger and file for divorce. As much as I want to DB, I'm not sure what a path for regaining trust and reconciliation looks like. We have been NC except for communication about the child. I canceled marriage counseling( he never contacted me to ask why).
I only know he's home because I saw this morning ring camera he carrying the bags in, then my son looked after he left.
My MIL said that he did talk to a lawyer. So maybe it's a legal ploy to look good during court.
Thoughts about what to do? Continue going dark/NC?
I still have strong anger and feelings of betrayal, I'm not interested in initiating contact. As you know, he is not allowed in the marital bed.
