Thank you G for opening my eyes to this. Event is on hold. My friend doesn’t know if she can afford it. We hung out earlier this weekend, so she is going to let me know. We decided either way we will do something that night.
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Rhetorical questions to help figure it out: What is under your control? (Your actions and reactions.) How can you act and react to be a lighthouse for her? How can you model how you want her to deal with it?
Be the lighthouse for her. I hadn’t thought about that other than in terms of the possible D. I realize I need to start that now in relation to school as well. I really like that. I’m really trying to think about my reactions with her. Making her do things for herself more. I didn’t have to think about that either D19, she’s so independent.
Dropped off D19 off at school yesterday. I didn’t cry until I got home and was doing her dishes she left of all things. Crazy how the mind works. I thought I’d cry in the car. Move in was so easy. So organized compared to moving in the dorms in the olden days when I was in the dorms. I’m so damn proud of her!
Still no R talk from H. I brought up an event we do every year with a huge group of friends. Tix go on sale tomorrow. Just asked him if he saw the Facebook post from our friend about it and he just says “yeah we’re going right”. I almost didn’t know what to say. Okay I’ll get tix. What is going on? Well who knows right. No expectations.
I’ve been trying to GAL like crazy which has been filling me up. Have a lot to do around the house today, but I think I’ll do my GALing first. It’s so gorgeous outside I’m off for a bike ride!
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