The private messaging feature is turned off for the site. Anonymity of users is high importance given the situations discussed here.
(BTW, the mail icon blinks for everyone. A weird default when messaging is deactivated.)
Also to note - as per the forum rules - sharing name, address, phone number, email, or other personal identification/contact information is not allowed.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
