You did well with the unexpected call. And you are correct, it’s a temp check by H. Just him checking in, seeing how/what you’re doing. H trying to keep you on the hook.
Good on you, not being on the shelf where he left you. Not sitting there pinning away over him.
Originally Posted by Unbeatab
I hate how easy he can mask, especially with his overconfident tone, and try to get the upper hand.
Yep. They certainly do that.
These hurt folks expend incredible energies into maintaining their fantasy, their mask. I’d bet H took quite a while to work up to calling you.
Originally Posted by Unbeatab
Should I have asked him how he was? It's weird being so short with him.
I think you did fine.
It’s not you being short with him, it’s you being succinct.
Kind and cordial.
Being friendly, but not friends. For your friends don’t treat you that way.
Originally Posted by Unbeatab
Our only day off, so getting some rest... some gardening and cleaning,and some cooking. I love cooking, so trying new recipes, and making some ready to go meals for the week. I wasn't lying about the GAL'ing... we went out for milkshakes yesterday, trying to get walks in if the weather cooperates and we aren't too tired.
Perfect!
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
