I understand how you feel. You want to scream so badly and confront him. The best thing you can do is make copies and document everything you can. Please be sure to put your copies and all documentation in a safe place where he can't find it. I found that by making a spreadsheet of all of the documentation helped me to keep things straight when I needed to present all of it to a lawyer.
Continue to come here to vent. This is the safest place to do so. If you need to scream, take a drive and go to a quiet place and scream as much as you need to. Dealing with these folks takes all of the patience that you have and then some. As they always say, dig deeper for patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
