My newest fear: Being that OW has a large chunk of $$ from her deceased husband (tragically: suicide) and a botched boob job lawsuit. Broken seeks broken ? We're talking Hundreds of thousands guys. He always bragged " she pays for everything"...

I'm fearful my H may quit his job and live off her funds . She's 10 years younger, has her own severe trauma from seeing him deceased...
Right now H is acquiescing to give our kid anything and everything financially, so I keep getting anxiety... That flow may stop..Trying not to fortune tell... But I have heard of capable MLC surgeons quit their job and become macrame artists ...haha ...all jokes aside...we never know one day to the next what whim he or she will flit to


I was going to suggest a reasonable number and see if he can agree on a contract...not sure he'd oblige
This is only week 1 since he left...tread lightly? Be stern?

Thoughts to reinforce the need to keep providing??


Also....so much to navigate and communicate with him - lawn care, driveway issues, snow plow contract...
How do I get this sorted out and not overwhelm him..