Ok- I think my thread has become somewhat of a daily journal of our interactions( or lack thereof).
I did text him to let him know : 1) I simply can't afford to keep his car on my insurance and gave him the choice to either get his own policy- or pay me the difference. He chose to have me drop him and pay for his own policy . Yay 2) I spoke to a financial planner about getting finances back on track and... Maybe this is a NO-NO ... Advised She can mediate a divorce settlement and tie up loose ends, and advised him to think about it, let me know. He didn't reply.
He came home from work, went straight to the man cave, only saying"hi" to the 6 year old without breaking stride. I went into an hour-long conference call which I locked my bedroom door typically and have a note that says " in session".
Not even 10 minutes into the session. I get a text- that he needs to get in and get clean clothes because he's been sitting in "wet underwear all day". I pause the session, open the door, he gets his clothes.
An hour later text from him
H- the cat pissed on my clean clothes P- sorry to hear about that
2 hrs later
H- Have A (daughter) boyfriend move his truck. I didn't ask why and summon the kid to move his truck.
He got in his work van about 10:00 pm and leaves, carrying the sack of cat pee clothes. OW lives 25 miles away, and because he took his work van he'll leave from her house in the morning to go to work.
He interacted with our little girl 15 mins today. No goodbye, goodnight, nothing. She's so sweet, and is very anxious already about "Daddy moving away". Luckily, She didn't see him leave so it's probably for the best.
