DnJ,

We've been non- monogamous our entire relationship, but transition to polyamory has not gone well for me(my words), and admittedly for him either( his words, not mine).

Our home is owned free and clear. No mortgage, liens or loans.

He's refusing to go to the couch. Last night I reminded him, my wishes. He said " I can't sleep in here anymore". I said no
Then I did something that probably backfired and took care of my own sexual needs while he lied there. I am a high libido woman and he knows this. Perhaps this approach was not helpful. We haven't spoken in days, and today I stupidly butt - dialed. My life is a comedy of errors.

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