Grok,
I really hate the strong feelings I'm having- the mood swings, vacillating between future focused and reduced to tears.

I don't know if I want to save this marriage. It's so much work and I'm exhausted to the core.

He keeps ignoring my request for him to relocate to the couch. Just as a
OW is his escape( his words, not mine) my bedroom is my safe space and I want him out. I have my own sexual needs to attend to and his presence is not welcome.
How do I handle this? I was going to neatly fold up the blankets and put them on the kitchen table before I lock the bedroom door and go to bed.
Maybe it's me exerting my need for control.

Last edited by PamCakes; 08/13/25 02:49 PM. Reason: Include responders name