I'm done. I had set a deadline that I haven't reached yet but I've just naturally hit a point where I feel I've given as much as I can and it doesn't make a difference. Things have been getting worse.
Limbo is hard. Focus on you. GAL.
Indifference is strange. One's feelings become muted, one becomes numb to what was so painful before.
Indifference is also temporary. It will unwind.
During this time, other feelings will loom larger than they truly are, against the void of once was. Use the numbness to dig deep into yourself. Find peace. Find your path.
I empathize with you feeling you've reached your point. Perhaps you have. It's the "but" though. You are justifying this choice before the deadline is here. So, have you actually reached your point, or just feel like you are.
"It doesn't make a difference." Nothing you do matters, and yet everything you does. There are differences/changes within you because of your journey and choices. There are changes within W as well, be them much hidden.
Originally Posted by Dynamiq
I've had a bit of legal advice. I've a fair idea of what is involved.
Good. Information is power. It's wise to understand one's position and options.
Originally Posted by Dynamiq
Wife seems ready to talk next steps...
I'd let her do the heavy-lifting.
Originally Posted by Dynamiq
I'm now the WAS.
Decision based upon emotions almost always lead to regret. Ensure life altering choices have roots in rationale and deeply held beliefs.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
