So a duplicate credit card payment for his “work card” again last month. I haven’t said anything about it. But sometime I can’t help feeling that he thinks I’m just ignorant for not bringing these things up. He’s obviously trying to hide it. At what point am I just becoming a doormat?

Other things that have happened. My car broke down. H has been really helpful letting me use his car when I need to which has been incredibly helpful. Sometimes it’s “we” conversations about getting it fixed (which we are) and sometimes it’s been more “you” conversations. It’s been weird. He’s also doing more around the house without me asking. Last night it was dishes. Not that he doesn’t help out. It’s just been more lately. I thank him pretty much every time he does that.

D19 moves back to school on the 31st. Tick tock….what will happen?