I'm done. I had set a deadline that I haven't reached yet but I've just naturally hit a point where I feel I've given as much as I can and it doesn't make a difference. Things have been getting worse.
W has taken off her ring, our shared calendar is full of her nights out and weekends away. More energy into going out than following through on moving out. It's obvious now that the breadcrumbs and threats are just a way to control me into allowing her to keep her relatively easy life while she acts single and explores the idea of other men.
It seems obvious she just wants "new". and I'm just the same old me, albeit I'm more integrated and mature and yet free and fun than ever. She knows this but it still isn't enough.
I've had a bit of legal advice. I've a fair idea of what is involved. Wife seems ready to talk next steps...
