Yes, XW tossed you another curve ball. Sheesh, a governess or tutor. Oh my. She’s out in left field, IMHO.
Originally Posted by grok
Initial internal reaction was WTF and No and XW, You put Yourself in this situation.
My reaction too!
My two cents, leave the settlement as is. No extra payments to XW. Figure out what you need to do to provide son with the education you want him to have.
Good on you. You didn’t need to decide or choose right then, and you didn’t.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
