Catching up on bk's thread and see this comment...it makes me question me not talking/acknowledging him at the last few events. Am I taking the wrong approach? Is what I'm doing a push? Is this evidence that I'm not healed? healing? Can you help me grasp my behavior, my intentions, my intent?
I agree with grok and V.
I believe your approach to dealing with H is good. Business-like. Letting him lay in the bed he chose to make.
The fact that you question your actions, your intent; embrace willingness to look within for root reasons for your behaviours; illustrates the depth of your healing and how much you’ve progressed on your journey. Keep walking your path. You are doing great!
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
