Continue to be kind and cordial with H. Short, direct, answers. Your positivity comes from within. Comes from your life. Your positive life. That will reflect in everything you do and say. It will be noticed in your behaviour at party or in a short reply to a question. Because you are doing it for you. For you. Because of you. (Not some attempt at winning him back.)
Sincere. Genuine. Honest. Loyal. Strength of character. Now, that is an interesting person.
Be who you want to be, because you want to be. Be kind and compassionate. The chip will fall as they will. You only can control your side of the street in all this. (((Hugs)))
Catching up on bk's thread and see this comment...it makes me question me not talking/acknowledging him at the last few events. Am I taking the wrong approach? Is what I'm doing a push? Is this evidence that I'm not healed? healing? Can you help me grasp my behavior, my intentions, my intent?
