Yes, the behaviours of these mixed up folks can be very confusing. They ping pong about, and can abruptly alter direction. Case in point, H’s plans about leaving. He pas postponed them, twice, and now is looking to get out of his lease.
Why? Hard to know for sure. Your changes, problems in the band, life pushing back on him, fate, karma, realizing what he would be missing/leaving/losing, etc.
You are wise to be wary and keep your expectations at zero. Time will tell.
Keep doing as you are. Be kind and cordial. Pressure-free. Focusing on you. Living your life. And letting H run to catch up.
You got this!
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
