We had a chat yesterday. He says he’s going to do everything to make sure I’m taken care of and I can still lean on him as a friend. I can’t hate him. I’m just so hurt that he wants a divorce. We will still be living together for at least a year or more while he gets ready to take his next step. I don’t understand. If he really despised me he wouldn’t want to be near me let alone sleep in the same bed and be nice to me. He tried to reassure me everything was going to be ok and everything happens for a reason and there was nothing to be scared of. Who does this???