Last week we found out that my FIL was in the hospital. He’s been dealing with pneumonia snd they decided to admit him while he comes off his blood thinners before they put in a drain. Monday the put in the drain and early Tuesday morning he’s in the ICU puking. So H found out first thing Tuesday morning when his brother calls and just said dad is in the ICU call mom. He’s freaking out a little bit before he calls and basically says “I can’t deal with this right now” (not sure what that meant, didn’t ask) and he calls his mom. They were running tests and will know more but he’s fine, they think it’s an ulcer. H is still freaking out so I gave him a hug and told him if he needed to talk I was there. I said I know. I’m not sure if that was the right thing to do, but it felt like I needed to at the time. Then the rest of the day he’s super crabby until D17 gets home and then the next day too. Not towards me necessarily just in general towards work
Today his brother got his prostrate removed because cancer was found. Needless to say he’s been a little stressed the past few days. Dad had an ulcer and he’s moving around. I haven’t seen him much today but everytime he gives me an update on everyone he seems irritable. Just weird. Stress? MLC? Showing it to me but doesn’t around D so she doesn’t see how he’s effected?
We go up to visit D19 on Sunday for Mother’s Day. Should be an interesting 2 1/2 hr drive. H took D17 to the store last night to “go shopping” aka get me a card or something. At least I’ll get something. Really excited to visit D19 at school. Can’t believe she’ll be home for the summer soon.
Busy weekend coming up. Lots of GAL’ing going on which I’m excited about.
Monday I’ll probably feel terrible again. M day has always been rough since my m passed away almost 5 yrs ago.
