Perhaps the work is on figuring out why you build resentment whenever you don't get to tell your wife what she is doing wrong? Or when she doesn't do it YOUR way.
I forgot to address this one. It wasnt resentment about not being able to criticise. It was resentment about not feeling able to have conversations about honestly fairly benign household issues because I knew it would be received as a personal attack. I didn't have the communication skills to bring these things up in the right way so i didnt and we rarely ever fought. Really some healthy conflict would have been good for us but it wasnt within our skill set. I see this in so many threads here where the couple would rarely fight until it hits the fan.
