Are you okay with your wife coming into your house when you're away? (I knew there was an arrangement when you travel). Are you okay with her using your laundry and sleeping on your couch?
Why didn't you text your kids or your XW when they weren't home when you thought they would be. Seems like you needed to go a little further than just checking their location. Not a hard text to confirm with her right?
So what's the status with D19? Is she just working or thinking about college? I'm sure you see this but she is overcompensating and acting as a second mother. How are you actively combating this whilst gentle guiding her to be doing what typical 19 year olds should be?
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
