Thank you both SO much.

Today I’m trying to act like a roommate. Even though my H would say that’s how we have been living. This roommate hasn’t offered any random information, which I usually do. We’ve talked when he brings stuff up, it it’s regarding the D, or if the D is involved. I think he thinks I’m mad at him? It’s just very uncharacteristic of me and feels very weird. Is that the right way to do it?

We both worked at home today and I went to the gym over lunch. My gym called him while I was gone, he told me he was concerned that something had happened to me, but they were just trying to get him to join. In the back of my head I’m like what do you care if something happened to me. I didn’t say that of course. I just said it was weird that they called. I’m so confused.