Thank you Job. I feel very blessed that I found you guys.
The credit card that he has been using is in his name only. So I have no access to it. However, I have been taking screen shots and recording everything I can because he is paying this card off with our joint account. Even the cash he takes out of our joint account I’m keeping track of. And I’ve made screen shots of all our statements. I’m not sure what to do about the separate account. The L that I had a consultation with told me not to do anything with the accounts yet. That everything is digital. So I’m not sure what to do there? I had a consult just to get my questions answered. Particularly about this.
We’ve talked to a mediation lawyer already and he’s looking at apartments. I don’t know if he has one set up and I haven’t asked. I know he applied for one.
His father had cancer around fall of 2019 but has been cancer free since then. At the time of BD his brother was going to be tested for cancer. We found out a month ago he does have cancer but caught it very early and surgery should take care of it. When I tried to talk to him about it he seemed very positive. The only other thing that’s happened is our D(19) going to college.
I’m trying to stop asking questions and letting him come to me. He still treats me like I’m his “friend” but not wife. He’s comment on things he knows I’m interested in and talks to me about his work. He asks how my day was and if I had fun with the friends I was hanging out with. We still watch tv together, do family dinners, go to our D(17)’s activities. I’m just so confused.
