Originally Posted by Caligirl
I will say I disagree about the kids . They are my number one reason for staying . Trust me I loose many nights of sleep over it . More than I would like to admit . Even taking H out of it , I still loose sleep over them.

Well I am certainly not here to tell you what to feel. Just here to support. smile

Seeing this is about the children - out of curiosity - I have some questions if you are open to answering them.

What "peace" do you think are giving your children?

What do you think they are learning from watching you in this relationship?

What do you think they are learning from watching H in this relationship?

What do you think they are learning about relationships in general by watching your H and you?


M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.