Dynamo, I see a lot of myself in your story and can relate to so much. Detach detach detach. It took me a while that’s for sure. And now somewhat full circle maybe, I have been able to see some things in new light after the dust has settled I suppose. I can be more objective and reflective about my own faults and weaknesses while no longer accepting more blame than I should. When someone (her) shows you who they are, believe them. Doesn’t mean this is who they always will be. People change. But this right now is where things really lie..