Right now, "while you are with her, you are not with me" is easy to buy. A no-brainer. I am not struggling with this one. Two months from now....well....let's just say that I've been known to forgive and cycle. Somehow, I talk myself into he's mentally ill and I need to forgive. A glutton for punishment.
I tend to not speak my boundaries. I implement.
Can you help me with actions/inactions for these scenarios? Remember I'm better at not reaching out to him than I am when he's in front of me.
1. I dropped off the tax file and it needs mtg info from him. I didn't tell the acct. I haven't reminded H since the initial request. When acct calls for info, do I ask him to contact H directly? Be upfront now with acct about the missing info and ask that they reach out to H for it? Or, be the mediator since this is between H and I? Is there an option #4?
2. Daughter's car is in both our names. Do I get D involved to get him to sign it over? Or, is this another business item between H and I and I should leave her out of it?
3. If by some huge miracle, he responds to my text from 2/15, do I respond?
Thank you DnJ and Valeska.
I never did get back to the second half of Divorce Remedy. I'll re-read the last resort. Let's see if I can straighten the camel's back. Unconditional love is bittersweet.
