Sure - intimacy matters... but in this case - true love is letting H hit rock bottom. He is not a teenager that needs reminding. He's a grown man that needs to figure out his sh!t. Try to see him that way.
He may be getting very close...atop financials being in the red, long work days in the frigid wet temps, depression, a truth dart from me today....and the upcoming wedding.
Originally Posted by Valeska
Sure - intimacy matters... but in this case - true love is letting H hit rock bottom. He is not a teenager that needs reminding. He's a grown man that needs to figure out his sh!t. Try to see him that way.
You were right, as usual. He's a grown man. And he has a lot of sh!t to figure out.
I didn't sleep well last night and was up at 2am. I grab my phone and find myself clearing out 'our' email box that we once shared. I come across an email that raises the antennas and it appears to have a trail. Upon looking through the trash, I see that some other ones from the same company were trashed by him.
1800flowers rec'd a flower order and made a delivery to the OW on 2/13...same day of BD1 for me. Notice I no longer refer to her as EA. Two dozen roses feels more like a romantic gesture. Oddly the message doesn't refer to any love. hmmm
Message on the delivery: Will you be my valentine? - [fake name]
Interesting, his fantasy also comes with a new name.
I quickly screenshotted, cropped and sent part of 1 of the emails, including the arrangement and the delivery address. Yup - not my address....
M: Did she like them? M: Are you going to tell the kids or should I? H: crickets....
And just like that, I'm a part of the stat that most MLCers have an affair.
