That's quite an undertaking - I wish you a smooth move. And, welcome to the east coast.
I exchanged more business texting with H using 1.0. He has been lingering in convos about nothing more than his long days. Then I read your response and all you had to say is that it keeps him from awakening to the hot mess he's created. Keeping him from rock bottom is not my intention!
H reached out again yesterday - yup 3 days in a week. Yesterday was more of 2.0 interaction. I left him hanging. He's fired me as a w.
Today, I sit in the same seat I cried profusely in 2 years ago - to this day - when BD1 took place.
I clarified a billing detail from yesterday's texting and asked no questions. I had no interest in acknowledging (and didn't acknowledge) the anniversary. Ha - anniversary. I've rec'd no response and don't expect to. H can sit in all the feels today and tomorrow for that matter.
I'm sad. I'm disappointed. Still, I'm not hovering over a bowl of chili with tears running faster than I could wipe them like I was 2 years ago.
I have someone coming to fix a couple things at the house today - stuff above my pay grade. I contemplated calling H as I know he's show - acts of service is his love language. Divorce Remedy told me not to. I know you would tell me not to. And, so I called for the hired help.
And now I find a way to get through this weekend. I ordered some special food for my valentines - Dog1 and Dog2. I know they'll love it. I'll attend 3 bday parties this weekend and enjoy my new normal.
Next weekend is a wedding I was supposed to attend with H but I wasn't invited. H is a groomsmen and he will sit and feel his consequences. I'm sure I'll find something to do.
