You want to see results and you are not seeing any and it’s frustrating to you. You are an impatient fixer who has probably always found a way when you encountered an issue. My guess is that you think if you keep trying the things you have been reading you can certainly fix this? I am going to be honest with you. You have three very young children and your W has one foot out the door. She is either really psychologically impaired or a lot of damage has been done. Either way it is going to take a really long time to turn this around. It is going to take a lot of changing on your part and infinite patience. Do you have it in you?
