I have maintained consistently positive friendships for the last few years . Good , solid friendships that have what I call equal partners . My friendships through ups and downs seem to stay the same.
H - surrounded himself for the last few years with pretty problematic friendships . Multiple friends whom were involved in cheating on with wives or long term girlfriends . H has caught on that these friendships seemed to be contingent on him par taking in the chaos . While talking he mentioned he does not hear from his “friends” for weeks at a time or they do not return calls . They make no active effort to be involved in normal friendships actvities . Kind of an eye opener for him . I just listened . It is still a balance to try not to give too much input . But it is very noticeable that differences in friendships .
