Look there is something to what you are saying. However, I had worked hard on my side on addressing things that I thought were worth addressing. And giving her space.
Now I did confront her on something that I did not need to at this moment, and made the mistake of framing it with a kind of ultimatum. Which I know does not work with her, and following through on this is not really a current option given some tough life choices that are coming up (not related to our relationship).
So I am now going to back off and withdraw. She has now taken off her rings, which is a way of showing she wants to be free from me or whatever
