I hear about the MLCer going back to their time of trauma, whether it be physically, mentally or both, I guess that's what is referred to as replay?
Please don't think I sit around and think about my sitch all the time, because I don't. However, I can't help if occasionally a thought about it does cross my mind.
I think about the time he took a job and moved (only abt 5 months ago) to the place our middle son was born, which was a happy time in our lives, we had only been back together from his quarter life crisis for about a year at that point. Is that part of his journey back to his time of trauma? And just recently after having been in communication with him for 3 months, the 35th anniversary of us starting to date comes around and he's back to no communication and wanting a divorce, is that part of his journey back to his time of trauma?
If he's going backwards to that time and acting out at these special moments, could that mean he's on his way out of this tunnel/crisis? Or is it just me looking for the light at the end of that tunnel (no pun intended), hoping it's coming to an end?
