I’ve started reading the resources and am trying to put them into practice…
I know my H has been calling around to attorneys, but doesn’t seem to want to leave until all paperwork is done he says. He says he even feels numb to the kids which makes him sad and confused, I just tried to acknowledge that must be hard.
Here is where I’m struggling, when he brings up D, I’ve tried to say I understand your feelings and they are your right, but mention that I don’t agree with D.
He has been kind and wanting to watch tv together at night, texting me to check in daily and making sure my pills are filled up and that I’m eating…he’s always been caring and all, but this is where my question comes in, how should I be responding to these things?
Enjoying the evenings with him watching tv while I can? Or should I leave and go find something else to do? He asks if I want to watch a show.
He will message and ask about my day and I try to be kind yet short and don’t keep the convo going.
It’s the calling attorneys during the day and wanting to hang out and be “friends” at night that throws me. It seems from his behavior he’s not ready to talk any D logistics with me or how to handle our kids, so I’m just confused by the texting, joking and wanting to hang out….
What’s the way to handle that? Thanks for everyone’s advice so far.
