It is interesting how these folks do seem to follow and speak a similar script.
W is walking her path and you need to walk your’s. Keep moving forward, and continue to make positive changes. Be kind and cordial, listen when she wants to share, minimal pressure, and such. You cannot control her or her path, yet you can influence it. Be a lighthouse.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.