Just to log some things that might be useful info to some others coming along later...
Bomb drop and other affair fog talk I heard: I never loved you Wish I didn't feel this way Fell out of love 2 years ago W saying she only got married because of pressure from her mum and my mum. W Saying I didn't want to marry and she forced me into it. W didnt feel love in my wedding speech W never saw herself staying in our house forever. Some talk about an ex from years ago that was 'proper love ' I think because he dumped W and therefore she had to chase him.
Later withdrawal talk: Doesn't see a future in our relationship Feels at a crossroads Doesn't want MC because she doesn't want to be told what to do.