I get it. Some of the decisions I made I've later regretted but not many. They came from the heart.
I guess I've been reading and obsessing too much. I see a lot of conflicting advice and it is hard to navigate through sometimes. Sandi's tips for dealing with a WW don't quite sit with the give space and time.
But I am starting to piece together all the info into a fairly good understanding of what's going on. I just don't know how much that helps. She's going to do whatever she wants to do.
It just doesn't feel right having someone who has hurt me so much, continuing to stay and take advantage of everything I provide. Safety, security, outward look of a happy family. I do know she is hurting too and feels like a failure but if we get through this I want some level of self respect.
Still haven't fully gone through my anger stage as you can see.
Ok I'll listen to the wiser heads than me on here. Space, time, work on myself.
